11.Asking questions during sex, or immediately after sex. Makes him feel like you have a damn low self-esteem and you want any assurance including fake; mostly he will lie to make you happy. Let it come from him, not forcing him to compliment you.
12.Talking about your ex at any time during sex e.g. before, during and after. Hell no!
13.When the man is all aroused and you start telling him you are too tired to have sex.
14.When you fall asleep while a man is inside you, halfway through. So mortifying.
15.Being all bushy down there until the man has to literally open up the bush in order to access the vagina, and worse when the vaginal fluids start flowing making the bush stick together, gross! Shave it or trim it to a good size, especially if your hair runs all the way to your anus.
16.If you are a sr, please let the man know especially if you are new to each other. Do not surprise him by spraying his bed with your 1 cup fluids and perhaps he has no spare bed sheets! He might avoid you later.
17.Starting talking about totally unrelated things once the man is done e.g. children school fees, house rent, shopping, etc. Makes the man feel like he has just had sex with a prostitute who now wants to be paid. Not so nice if you love each other.
18.Assuming men’s erections is like an instant switch; that men do not need foreplay but women. So you leave the man to do all until you are wet and assume he too is ready. You might get shocked he has no erection at all. Just be fair, stimulate him too.
19.Talking passionately to him all the time, only to remain completely silent when having sex with him. Makes him feel like that is a lost bet. At least talk, let him know if you are doing great simple as, “Oh! Yes!”.
20.Cuddling. Yes, it is nice and women love it. But most men just feel sleepy when he is done. Don’t crucify him when he does exactly that. You can later discuss it well but just don’t attempt to force him to cuddle you.